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Reflections!
My reflection revolved around my ability to "edit" my ideas and rethink many opinions about our educational system that I once firmly believed in. Prior to being in this class, I had a strong belief that every student should go to college and those who didn't were destined to be failures. Even though I saw students who simply weren't raised to beleive college was even a remote possibility, I felt comfortable telling myself that these students simply weren't ambitious or motivated enough to reach college. Essentially, I was blaming these students for something that, in many aspects, was out of their control. Since being in this seminar, my views on the topic have changed tremendously; and I realize the adversity that disadvantaged students have in our educational system that promotes "fairness." My ability to really grapple with issues like these has been the area where I've seen the most growth in myself over the course of this seminar.
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Reflection so far...
My perceptions and beliefs about education have definitely been challenged and expanded through the progression of this class. I’ve learned that everyone in my class has had different educational backgrounds than myself, but we all have something in common and things to share with the class. I’m not quite sure what we have in common but I know that it’s something because the way in which we have our conversations, you would think that we have all shared some of the same educational experiences.
It’s nice to be apart of a class where I am not judged for what I have to say. I think that collectively as a class we have so many opinions to offer. I really like that we work really hard to challenge ourselves and work to understand (to the best of our ability) complicated readings—knowing and hearing the ideas of others helps me rethink what I have to say.
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Disability and Sexuality
http://www.msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2011/10/11/thoughts-on-slutwalk-from-a-wheelchair/
I came across this article which I gives another lived experience of what it is like to be wheelchair-bound. The picture of the lady holding a sign that says "disabled women are not sexless! We want sex and relationships - not rape." is particularly powerful and I think drives home the idea of people with disabilities being sexless.
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Thoughts on "Between-"/"Within-" Gender Relationships
It's funny because if you start using the phrases "between-gender" and "within-gender", then same-sex couplings seem to be the dafault. Between-gender could be just about any combination, unless you categorize trans*/genderqueer/intersex as a single category (alternative? non-binary?). But that's still an unclear definition.
If I say I'm in a between-gender relationship, the only thing you know (if you even know this) is that I am a woman who is NOT in a relationship with another woman. I could be in a rleationship with a man, with someone who identifies as trans*, intersex, genderqueer. I am also assuming that between-gender/within-gender means between-sex/within-sex which may be an unfair observation, especially since gender and sex are not the same thing.
In what other circumstances is the default changed from heterosexual to queer? I feel like that's a part of Bryn Mawr's atmosphere--queer seems like the default because the queer community is generally very outspoken and visible.
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OUT Week on Bryn Mawr's campus
To those interested in gen/sex issues outside of the classroom, OUT Week is going to be this upcoming week!
For more information, contact me or see the facebook event: http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=228167287238190
Schedule of events:
Bryn Mawr College
OUT Week 2011
October 17 – 21
Monday
“Ways of Being Out” Discussion with Faculty
Campus Center 200, 4:30 PM - 5:30 PM
Tuesday
“Show your Pride” Day
All over campus
Wednesday
Movie Night: The Birdcage
Thomas 110, 9 PM - 11 PM
Friday
Pride Craft Day
Merion Green, 12 PM – 4 PM
Rainsite: Arnecliffe Rainy Day Studio
Party OUT!
Location TBA (check Facebook page for updates), 10 PM - 1 AM
***All events are open to the tri-co and guests of the tri-co***
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Looking Back
Throughout this class, I have had my expectations challenged, my perspectives broadened and my writing matured. The in-class discussions that have been facilitated by our reading of many different educational theorists have brought into question for my peers and me what we really believe about education when it comes to voicing these attitudes, and often taking one side or another in our Barometer exercises. I have heard from many students whose educational experience seems to have started a world away from mine, but is now converging as we share the classroom. And, through reflection and conference, I think that my writing has improved, or at least that I have been made more aware of the sort of pratfalls I have been conditioned to make by the way I’d been taught to write prior to college.
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On having a dialogue
Welcome! This forum is a space for Parkway West High School students and Bryn Mawr College students to create dialogue and explore ideas about education, social class, opportunity, and our futures.
Please use it to reflect on our shared visit:
- what ideas or issues stood out to you from our conversation?
- What surprised you and piqued your curiosity?
- What would you like to explore further?
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Chaz Bono on Dancing With The Stars controversey
Dancing With The Stars isn't exactly my cup of tea, but both of my younger sisters absolutely love the show. I wouldn't have become aware of Chaz's inclusion on the show if I hadn't heard them talking about it over this break. My sisters have definitely become less prejudiced against LGB people because of my coming out to them, but don't seem to have the same open-mind toward people in the T part of the acronym. Their discomfort is one view along the spectrum of DWTS viewers who think the producers' choice to add Chaz Bono to the cast was/is wrong.